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THE COUPLES COMMUNICATION HANDBOOK

Your Essential Guide to Less Conflict and More Connection

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About The Book

If you're tired of fighting and want to learn how to connect with your spouse, The Couples Communication Handbook is for you!

 

Buy your copy today and discover clear, practical instructions on how to communicate effectively with your partner to ensure they feel heard. ​

 

Start your journey towards a happier, more connected relationship now!

About the Author

Raffi Bilek has been working with couples across the globe for over a decade. He has helped hundreds of couples improve their communication, boost their connection, recover from hurts and betrayals, and, in many cases, save their marriages.

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Before that, Raffi earned a degree in computer science from Brown University, but never much enjoyed it because the computers wouldn’t laugh at his humor. Besides being a couples counselor and a computer programmer, Raffi is a dad to four girls, a former swing dancer, an Orthodox Jewish rabbi, and a nationally ranked Scrabble player.

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​Raffi speaks English, Hebrew, French, and Spanish, has seen the fjords (they really are that good), and enjoys playing word games and telling good (and bad) jokes. He deeply loves his wife, but frankly wishes she got more of his jokes.

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Testimonials

Accessible, full of wisdom, vivid examples, specific guidance, warnings of what not to do, and a clear prescription of how the whole process of love works. We recommend this to all couples looking for a connecting relationship and to all therapists who want to learn from a master.

Harville Hendrix, Ph.d. And Helen Lakelly Hunt, Ph.d

This practical, insightful guide to communication in relationships provides step-by-step instructions to navigate the complexities of relationships with empathy and effectiveness. An excellent book on a challenging topic

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Janis Abrahms Spring, Ph.d
 

This is the best marriage book I've read to date... Clear and practical and all sorts of stuff I wish a book had told me early in my marriage. 

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Channah Cohen, Senior Leadership Educator 

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